I'm not physically attracted to my boyfriend anymore, but I do love him. Can anyone help with advice?

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I'm 18. I'm not physically attracted to him anymore. He treats me good and has been there for me for many difficult times. I think he suffers from depression, but he won't get help. I am just so confused. I don't know whether to stay with him and work on affection or leave. Adults tell me looks aren't everything, but younger teens tell me to dump him. Anyone have a similar situation?I'm not physically attracted to my boyfriend anymore, but I do love him. Can anyone help with advice?
No I do not have a similar, but part of the issue for you might be to question physical issues. Are you beginning to compare with others?





Obviously his issues need to be taken care of, and you can't be his guardian, or Make him do what he won't, You both should talk about it though and analyze what's going on in you that's creating the distance, or loss of attraction.





AngelI'm not physically attracted to my boyfriend anymore, but I do love him. Can anyone help with advice?
I don't think you should settle got less than the total package, and if you aren't attracted to him anymore, he's not getting the total package from you, either. Looks don't have a lot to do with with it. I've been attracted to some guys a lot of people would consider ';ugly';, but I was attracted to them for everything they were. Just the same, I've been turned off by plenty of ';pretty'; guys. If he no longer attracts you, that's a sign of deeper problems in the relationship. You could try to work on it, but if it doesn't get any better, the healthiest thing is to end it. Not all relationships are going to work out.


-Blake
i think its worth working on.. but you dont always have to be with the person to work on something. i would worry about breaking up because of the depression so i dont know what to tell you exactly. but i mean dont just throw away 2 years right away without thinking about it... i'd say give it another shot. sometimes i feel the same way and if i should find other people. but then i think back to everything we've been threw just to get where we are today and its not worth it. and i know im happy with him... so if you leave him you'll never know what it could of been. but if you stay with him you'll never know what you could of had. but if you think about it everything happens for a reason.. make the right choice:) think about how he would feel to or how it would effect you in the ending result:) good lucks!
I do, same exact one, the only difference is i am 22, and we are 2 years already and i am not into his looks anymore as well. You should be there for him when in times he is down. He needs your support and leaving him won't do him any good. He will recover from depression with you in his side. For that he will love you more
yeah, i m in a similar situation





i would stay with him





the guy i like, and would do all most any thing if he would just ask me out all ready. but was not physically attacted. He hasgrown on me now, but still nt as much as other guys. I do really like im thought





and you shuld stay with him beause you might miss him, an not ever be able to find som1 as good





(im 14 btw)
I think u shud try to make things wrk with him u shudn list3n to wat otha p3opl3 say if u lov3 him th3n it r3ally shudn matta b3caus3 u th3 on3 who has to b3 with him not your p33rs and put urs3lf in his sho3s if u tr3at him good and all and h3 wasn't physically attract3d to you anymor3 wudn't u want him to try to wrk things out with you so thats som3thing to think about and just think back at all th3 good tim3s ya'll hav3 shar3d and think if h3 wud l3av3 u if going thru th3 sam3 thing lov3 dnt hav3 looks LOV3 IS LOV3!!
ive been with mine two years and have this same thing sometimes. like i see him all the time that his hotness is nothing to me anymore. it comes and goes with me. ive thought about breaking it off and finding someone i am more attracted to but then i smack myself because i remember that this man is the best ever. affection comes naturally when both people are comfortable.
I was in this situation..it was hard. I made the decision to not be with this person..and that was the worst mistake ever! I realized that looks are not what make a relationship! Please, if you are in love with this person - see if he will get some counseling with you. You need to take a serious look at what you want from a relationship..and if THIS person can fulfill what you are looking for. If i could do it all over...I would have have never ended it over something as petty as looks!
If you are real friend,be with him even if he tries to ignore you because of depression, irrespective of what relation be in future.If you love or like him bcz of his inner beauty that is great but find your strength that you are not fealing pity on him.
Oh! I just went thru this.


I was with my ex for 2 years and I was never really attracted to him.


It only got worse.


Were you ever attracted to him? If so you may be able to get it back.


Or perhaps the relationship has just run its course and it is time to move on.






of course younger teens with tell you to dump him... theyre very looks based... all they care about... but you wont worry about that wen your an adult....





only you can decide whether you want to be in this relationship.... just remember ALL relationships need work or none of them would work out....
Try to spice it up. Go do something that you two have never done before. Like a hiking trip or skydiving. Do something daring, and challenging. This way, you will both bond by being in the same ';challenging'; situation
I think you should stay with im. Who knows! He could be the love of your life! Maybe you should trick him into going to a psychiatrist. Or maybe you just have to get physical to anti-depress him
my b/f is beautiful ,Its his spirit I love but hes also very pretty to me,and has such lonely eyes........
alcohol and a light switch dimmer





works for all chubby chicks
talk to each other. be strong.. work on your relationship