How to forget bad memories of past advice help suggestions best answer 10 points?

If you had bad experience with abusive parents or abusive bf now my man.But now things are fine between you two after working out your problems with abusive parents %26amp; man how to make bitter taste of past go away?Please dont say therapy or breaking up as we are all doing well now after working out our problems since we love each other.How to forget bad memories of past advice help suggestions best answer 10 points?
Stop focusing on the past. Focus on the future.


Be positive in your thoughts.





Joyce Meyers always says, ';I know I'm not quite where I need to be, but Thank GOD, I'm not where I used to be.';How to forget bad memories of past advice help suggestions best answer 10 points?
leave the past in the past and look forward to the future
try to understand each other more...like, attend to each other needs, top priority is him...cos u say both of u love each other right? adore and love more..by not showering with $$$ especially, sweet talks, hugs and kisses...maybe go for holiday if both of u have the time...have fun. All The Best!!
I was abused when I was a child, but now I have found the love I didn't get by my parents in a wonderful man. The love of this man makes me forget the horrible past I lived as a child. I live for the future with him not in the past with my parents. Every day he makes me feel like I am special and shows me how important I am to him and others. The past just slowly faded away. I just leave the past in the past where it belongs. If it ever creeps back, he's there to hold me and help me get through it. If you have the love of a good man you can get through anything.
Don't look back, as if the past is all that you have. You have a sweet present, and an even sweeter future. If you should look to the past, only do it to compare where you are as opposed to where you've been. Best of luck to you all.
Set Yourself some Boundaries. You do not want the abuse to continue nor will you ever allow it to go unjustified again. So by setting yourself some boundaries and sticking to them, this should help you be a stronger person for standing up for yourself, try the following:





1) This is MY space, Do NOT come within in unless I allow you too.


2) If you abuse me in any way, verbally, physically in any shape or form, I will protect myself and turn you into the law.


3) I don't like abuse, I want allow abuse in my life.


4) If you cross my boundies, you leave me with no other alternative than to never have you in my life again, because if you do it once, I know you will do it again.


5) I will NEVER abuse my own children.





6) I love myself enough now to realize I can go forward in my life without further abuse. I mean what I say, and I will do as I say, do not underestimate me anymore.





I hope this helps you. You should always have boundries in many areas of your life, if certain people cross a line with me, such as I, myself do not believe in the following and won't allow it if it happens to me. Adultry, Abuse, Drugs.


Those are my boundries, these things I WILL NOT ALLOW IN MY LIFE. And when they do come into my life, my strong beliefs tell them they have to go and be out of my life.


I've only been hit by one man, my ex, actually he tried to strangle me. I called the cops and had him removed and I never wanted him in my home again. The man was sick. It started with verbal abuse and I tried to get him to leave, oh he'd always say ';I'm moving out';. I'd say, don't let the door hit you on the way out. The problem was....it was MY home. I put up with the verbal crap for 3 years. I honestly for the first time in my life ';learned how to tune someone out';. I stopped hearing him, ignored him and would get on the telephone while he was in the middle of a rant. He soon realized his words could no longer hurt me and that's when I believe he became violent physically with me.





We don't deserve to be abused in any way. But when you start believing all the above, it will make you a stronger person believe me. And you will learn to take your time in future relationships to make sure the person isn't an abuser.





Good luck to you, keep your chin up and your nose down ~
you can't just forget what happened to you in the past instead u should learn from it.
experience is a part of life, whether sad, happy, etc.etc. Let our experience be our guide to a better and happy life for whatever the experience we have it teaches us to be a better person.move on and let your past be your guiding path to have a better life in the future.
focus on now and not the past. be thankful for what u have in life and know u are blessed. just look at how far u have come now, and forgive what others have done to u, as the sin was theirs and not yours.
ur past will follow u along ur whole life,but it dapends on u how 2 take it......u sh'd involve urself in those activities which gives u happiness,peace %26amp; a beautiful smile on ur lovely face.....keep urself busy in ur family or some work so that those past thoughts couldn't disturb u...... all the best=)
You hit a point in your life when you just want to be happy, so you have to let go of the bad past. What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger, if you choose to take it in that way. You need to let go of all that and move on, you will be so much happier if you do.
I also had abusive parents and other's who harmed me as a child. The best advice that I can give is that You can't dwell on the past. That doesn't define you as a person. You can learn from the things that have happened to you good or bad and know that You have become a better person bc of it. It's in the past and although you'll NEVER forget it, just Thank God that you are in a good situation now.